Thursday, May 7, 2009

Attitude Is Everthing

The way you carry yourself and see yourself really is everything. It can affect the types of relationships you enter, the everyday decisions you make and the goals you set for yourself. Exhibiting a positive, confident attitude will take you a long way in life. When you truly believe that you deserve the best out of life, all goals and aspirations never seem unattainable.

Your demeanor and confidence level can also affect the kinds of relationships you get into, both romantic and platonic. A lot of women wonder why they keep attracting the wrong type of man and feel like there are no good men out here. They usually either end up settling for the man who mistreats, demeans and abuses them or just resign themselves to being alone forever. Truth be told, many of us need to carefully examine ourselves and ask some hard questions.

Just as a good man with great intentions is attracted to a woman who is confident and respects herself and others; a man who is abusive, immature, or a cheater is typically drawn to a woman who does not think very highly of herself and accepts repeated disrespect. If a woman is insecure and has no self-love it is very apparent to others.

If your confidence and self-esteem is not where it should be, you can change that. First, you will have to find out the underlying reasons to why you feel the way you do. The most common reasons are prior physical, emotional or sexual abuse, unhappiness with your outward appearance or not feeling fulfilled in your life. You can start by seeing a therapist or psychologist, joining the gym and getting on a consistent workout regimen or finishing that degree.

You are here for a purpose and you deserve to have the very best out of life. Once you truly believe that you are worth it and carry yourself as such, life will send the very best your way because you will accept nothing less. If where you are now is not where you want to be, each new day presents a new opportunity to choose differently. Live your life on your terms.


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